Sunday, 26 October 2008

Love at first sight

'Do you believe in love at first sight or do I need to pass by again?'

I had seen this scripted on numerous t-shirts and almost always smiled at the implied wit. I never believed in love at first sight. How can a person like someone he/she just met and doesn't know anything about? Nothing about his/her character, nature, preferences. Nothing whatsoever. After all, a good looking face isn't the only requisite for a long lasting relationship. I still don't believe in love at first sight. Its just that yesterday I came to know of an instance of love at first sight that culminated in a relationship.

Our protagonist is a girl. A young girl. On a family visit to a certain place she came across this guy- nothing special about him- just the usual- okay looking, ordinary, down to earth guy. And oh! She was just 13 at that time. The guy probably didn't notice her (he was about 6-7 years older and probably chasing longer legs and shorter skirts! :) PS that's my view). So, it was a two day visit and she had to return home after that. She went home and cried.

Years later...

Not many, to be honest. Probably 4-5 years, a quirk of fate (or destiny?) brought her in such a position that she was able to get in touch with that guy. (He seems to be a loser to be without a girl or maybe a playboy enough to be between girlfriends). Anyway, he was single too. And boy! Our protagonist had grown up! A lovely lass of 17-18, carefree and easy-going, she caught his eye (she probably worked hard for it- catching the eye, I mean ;)). The fire took time to kindle but soon enough the flames were all over them and both were having heartburns (not relieved by i.v. injection of pantoprazole too :( ). Last I heard they were in a relationship.

Well, that sort of culminates the story. Still, I find it wonderful that someone should fall in love at first sight and that the relationship materializes (in due time, of course. After all sabr ka fal meetha hota hai )

There is no purpose behind sharing this story (as is the case with most of my posts). But the story touched my heart. And also the hope that people untouched by love till now may get inspiration from this story. And also the hope that those in love read and appreciate that something special called 'love'.

13 comments:

juanita said...

love at first sight....could be attraction at first sight...but love at first sight...i doubt it works out in most cases. okay i admit there could be exception to the rule.

SHAKYA ZONE said...

Shakya here gud story....the first part co-incides with sumthing that hapnd to me....oops....

btw...is it real????????

daktar said...

As real as you and me.
Hope the second part of your story culminates similarly. :)

rajarshi said...

I think I know the couple here,,,,or do i?

daktar said...

How would I know that? :)

Anonymous said...

Are we being kept in d dark?
Vinay da,is sumthng cooking-shooking? Now dont give that it's-just-a-story kinda look on ur stubbled face...
'lead us frm darkness to light'

The Cynic said...

hey, vinay da's fixed!!

The Cynic said...

i mean, i am allowed to speculate, ain't i?

daktar said...

@ KD Of course it is a story! Albeit a true one.

@ PP NO. Vinay da is mobile, non-tender, non matted etc etc :)

also, India is a democratic country. You are free to speculate. If Raj Thackeray can get away with his comments, why can't you??? lol

blackgames said...

ya know it might actually happen...this love at first sight shit...well sumthin similar did happen once to a weirdo,it cud be safely termed "love-at-first-chat" me guess...(neologism...yay!!!)watever...ghosts from the friggin past me mate...but then truth is almost always stranger than fiction...n truth smells fishy!!

blackgames said...

ya know it might actually happen...this love at first sight shit...well sumthin similar did happen once to a weirdo,it cud be safely termed "love-at-first-chat" me guess...(neologism...yay!!!)watever...ghosts from the friggin past me mate...but then truth is almost always stranger than fiction...n truth smells fishy!!

Roshan said...

Actually I was browsing, this blog to analyze the site visit statistics (for some OLAP operations to my students in Data Mining classes...)I came across this:
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Hollywood, Florida arrived from google.com on "Craps, Lies, and Bullshit: Love at first sight" by searching for love at first sight is bullshit, via google.
03:30:33 -- 4 days 18 hours ago (FROM 10TH FEB 2009)
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I read this post.
And guys, its easy to conclude about the credibility of the story above, because why the hell will the author write about a so called "FACT" (u can argue, with the phrase "so called", though..)

Roshan said...

and i forgot to mention, the search string in the above comment..haha
"love at first sight is bullshit"